Ask a Guy: The More Distant I Act, The More Interested He Becomes

Not just on your TV or your radio or ads on in your web browser, but from everything and everyone. Every person you speak to has an opinion. To remain mute on a subject makes you appear shy and probably uninformed. Responding with few words means you probably only know a few words to begin with. In short, we live in a society that has killed the strong, silent man. The strong, silent type has been a male archetype for what seems like eons. James Bond, Indiana Jones or any character played by Clint Eastwood all appeared to have mastered the art of conversation by not making much conversation at all. Their words, however few, carried weight because not a word was wasted. Even Teddy Roosevelt, possibly one of the most masculine humans to ever roam the earth, preached a mantra of speaking softly and carrying presumably for walloping the bejesus out of blowhards a big stick. The world we live in grants us almost completely unfettered access to whatever information we seek.

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Originally Posted by Kofybean You are describing a basic level of affection. Im lost as to how you two ended up together if he didn’t even show basic levels of interest in you. Being a man of action and not of words doesnt mean they have zero levels of affection. Well he is treating you the way he treats himself, which is probably why it seems his “friends” getting better treatment than you.

Is he hurting on the inside? Btw that behavior may never change, because, as i said, he treats you how he treats or feels about himself.

The strong silent type is and always will be one of the stereotypes of what many women find really attractive. The mystery, the intrigue, those muscular forearms. Yep, they all .

Born between and As of most of these folks are still too young to have made an impact. However the older ones might be fighting our war in Afghanistan. The younger ones are hopefully still in school and planning on careers and jobs that will have strong demand and generate new opportunities. I’m personally optimistic about the iGen’ers.

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Originally Posted by confusedgirlhere I’m not necessarily talking about talking. More like, if indirect actions on my part make him think the relationship is threatened, he will make a big effort. But if I’m not indirectly showing my discontent, he’s kind of closed off.

Out of the Silent Planet is a science fiction novel by the British author C. S. Lewis, published in by John Lane, The Bodley Head. Five years later it was published in the U.S. (MacMillan, ). Two sequels were published in and , completing the so-called Cosmic Trilogy or The Space Trilogy.. The fragment of another sequel, evidently set prior to Perelandra and That Hideous.

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Originally posted by salonroquet: Naturally, I have had previous Scorpio friendships and relationships, so I went into the relationship thinking I knew kind of what to expect. Usually, it is that I go into a role of being a counselor for the Scorpio and we quickly become close this happens with males and females. However, this particular guy is very different. I actually adore him, but he is a bit of a mystery, even after three months. I don’t know if he is “unemotional”, for lack of a better word, but he isn’t very forthcoming with his feelings.

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And not all of them were engineers, hunters or computer nerds, either. Yet these quiet types were soon to join the ranks of the “10 least-wanted list,” right up there with male chauvinists and accountants. This disillusionment with the “silent” man began in the ’60s and ’70s. Men — and women — were supposed to open up, communicate and relate.

Suddenly, silence was no longer golden; it was neurotic. Rosen in Psychobabble, “it is the insistence on preventing failures of communication. Everything now must be spoken. The problem, they said, is that men are not brought up to express their feelings; they are not brought up to communicate properly.

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Mailed a question about a friend who uses the “silent treatment. Here is a continued and longer explanation of the answer already provided. Does your husband, wife or intimate partner use the silent treatment when upset about something? The silent treatment is one of the most damaging relationship problems. The Silent Treatment The silent treatment or “stonewalling” refers to someone who is letting you know that something is wrong without telling you why.

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And the worst part? Which enraged him further. The last thing Quinn saw was the sassy head shake of her sassy new hairdo. He drained his cup of beer and poured another from the pitcher. I live in this goddamned county. I got just as much right to be here as she does. Looks like she has. It always has before. Did she ask you to? You are one stubborn sonuvabitch. I can see why Libby is tired of it and booted your ass.

But the irony was that street ran both ways. Libby ought to realize there was more to being a good wife than having supper on the table, maintaining a spotless house, and cramming his dresser drawers with clean clothes.

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A Different Sort of Lifestyle Chapter The Strong Silent Type – It’s easy to forget what you wanted out of life once you get caught up in the rat race. The things we wanted when young get forgotten while competing to out do the neighbors. At some point, you just become lost. Does it have to be that way?

Strong, Silent Type Page 1. Chapter One “Get your goddamn hands off my wife.” “Act like you did when you were dating. Bring her flowers, wine and dine her with candlelit dinners, take her to the movies. Spend time just makin’ out and tryin’ to cop a feel in the truck.”.

And the worst part? Which enraged him further. The last thing Quinn saw was the sassy head shake of her sassy new hairdo. He drained his cup of beer and poured another from the pitcher. I live in this goddamned county. I got just as much right to be here as she does.

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Continue Here is why this situation is so confusing for most women. When a girl loses interest in a guy after a few dates, she can usually pinpoint the reason. A guy can go on a few amazing dates with a girl and find himself suddenly and inexplicably put off by her.

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Originally Posted by january No, he made jokes when I tried to have a serious talk about our relationship. I’m not necessarily talking about talking. More like, if indirect actions on my part make him think the relationship is threatened, he will make a big effort. But if I’m not indirectly showing my discontent, he’s kind of closed off. My guess is that a guy who is the silent type tends to associate communication with conflict and he avoids it.

He perceives any relationship talks as a forum for his partner to list what he the guy is doing wrong. Some guys think you only talk about something if it’s broken. For me, the talk keeps it from feeling broken. Otherwise, if everything were great, there would be no need to talk about the relationship, right? Upon hearing the “complaints,” he may just put his head down and work harder to “fix” whatever is the issue. In the hopes that she is happy once the issue has been fixed. Yeah, my issue is that the fixes don’t last.

He does make an effort – he must care if he bothers to try at all.

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